it’s an argument that I KNOW I can’t win, but I keep trying . . . even though it’s not really something I am able to speak to . . . I just get mad when my friend Mona talks about “good” and “bad” hair. But no matter how many times I tell her not to call something “bad” when God called it “good”, she refuses to even consider it . . . and of course, I’m a white girl (now let me tell YOU about some BAD hair!!!) so I know that nothing I say will convince her that I am right about this . . .

That’s why I like to let other folks do the arguing for me whenever possible . . .